What to do when the bride has red wine accidentally spilled down the back of her wedding dress?? First things first..call for your planner. She should always have a bottle of club soda with her. If you don’t have a planner, find the bartender as they should have similar supplies. Then pour what you have on the stain and then blot it. Do not rub it or scrub...this will cause the stain to set. Just stick to blotting. So...step 1 - find your planner or bartender.. step 2 - douce. Step 3 - blot. Step 4 - pray. Step 5 - forget about it and hop back on the dance floor.